The hardest times in life are the moments in which the very fabric of the truths held so dear are placed into the furnace of affliction: this process is very painful and can lead to two drastically different results in the character that was subjected to the trials. An all too common result is for the person to come out weaker, more inept at their daily life, and completely mistrusting of real and relevant relationships that would produce life and joy all round them. Furthermore, the issues that were to be confronted begin to cool and harden at an accelerated rate, and the finished result is far too dense to penetrate with loving and kind words. A bastion of defense is summoned to guard the wounded heart, protecting at all costs, against any and all incursions into the vulnerable aspects of the soul. All that is left is a shell of the former self with a heavy unbearable burden and cracked self-esteem that is far more destructive to the self than any outside influence could ever be. While a retraction into the depths of depression is one choice, the greater glory is found when people claim the burden as a badge of courage and charge into the fire.
Greatness comes to those who cherish perseverance, and a more perfect union of body and soul is granted to those who stand in the fire; to look inward to see what character defects need to be shed and thrown away like the dross. Great faith and courage is required to endure these trials, but a hope in a greater purpose is given to those willing to take the challenge. When faith requires stepping into the fire, forsaking any safeguards, what is gained is far more precious than any material thing: a peace that comes after the storm. Like stillness of the most silent nights, our hearts will find a place that is comforting and fulfilling; subsequently, the lesson that was learned will never again plague the frailty of the love we were meant to give. Grace will be given to those who suffer the now conquered deficiency , and our hope will lie ahead—not in in the shameful past.
